Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Global Jewish Leadership: The 7th Lubavitcher Rebbe and a vision of Redemption


Its coming up to the 20th anniversary of the passing from this physical world of Rabbi Menachem Schneerson, the 7th Lubavitcher Rebbe. In the past few weeks three biographies of the Rebbe have been published, and of the two that I have already read, by both of the author's own admissions, ( Chaim Miller and Adin Steinsaltz)  and from my own impressions of what has been written, the biographies can only give testimony to a small percentage of the Rebbe's amazing contribution, presence and mystique. Of course I am so very grateful to the authors, and intend to read the third biography  by Joseph Telushkin as soon as possible, but the Rebbe was so very large, it is difficult to capture him in a book. Chaim Miller admits this in his introduction, and cites this as the reason that so many years have past without any biography being written, but never the less I would highly recommend both books to any one interested in catching a glimpse of the very real and very human greatness of the 7th Lubavitcher Rebbe.

From my readings it is clear that the Rebbe had an amazing memory, was a real genius, loved learning about almost everything particularly Torah, Mysticism, Chassidus , Mathematics and Astronomy and was passionate in his dedication to  Hashem, the Jewish People and the land of Israel. He also cared deeply for every single human being on the planet! He was deeply intuitive and had some psychic or mystical abilities that neither of the authors elaborate too much upon. He was incredibly focused and clear about what his mission in the world was... to carry out the goal  of the Freddiker (Previous) Rebbe, which was to strengthen Judaism, spread the light and wisdom of Torah and bring Moshiach! The Rebbe extended the Freddiker Rebbe's vision to include spreading the wisdom of the Torah to all of humanity in every corner of the globe. He created programs to engage the elderly, young children, unaffiliated college students, drug addicts, soldiers, wounded soldiers , people with disabilities  and the regular secular and assimilating Jew in the comfortable modern world, and he emphasized the crucial  importance of women in the spiritual reality of the family and the nation! Wow.... thats a lot!

What makes all of the above even more interesting is that the Rebbe was really an introvert by nature and did not want to become  the Rebbe at all ! He stepped up to the plate when it became clear that he needed to do it for the sake of Lubavitch and for the sake of the Chassidim and Chassidus... and then he never wavered! The Rebbe was such an awesome example of unwavering and clear sighted focus... his vision  was razor sharp..  he was crystal clear on the difference between what is truth and what is political expediency, what is halachah and what is a "kop-out", what is the right way for a Jew to behave and what is a sell-out... the Rebbe never supported expedient compromise..and he hated the fact that the government of Israel traded land for empty promises of a fake peace... oh well, so much for that!

The Rebbe outlined a very clear program of how we need to continue the mission in his physical absence, there is so much written  and digital footage recorded explaining exactly what we need to emphasize... we need to stay focused, in our love of the "other" and our fellow and utilize our own unique talents and personalities to illuminate and spread the wisdom of Torah, not just to our fellow Jews, but to our fellow humans... truly be an "Ohr La-Goyim", a light unto the nations, and in so doing, may we be worthy to truly see the light of Redemption and the Revelation of the Moshiach/ the true redeemer in our times!!

And by the way, if you haven't  yet read one of those biographies.... go out and get  hold of at least one... as I said, I haven't yet read all three, but i loved Chaim Miller's
Turning Judaism Outward!...

Have a meaningful Gimmel Tammuz...be inspired and then do something positive!!

Friday, June 20, 2014

The Efficacy of Prayer

Right now the Jewish people are pleading with Hashem, "Let our boys 
Yakov Naftali Ben Rachel Devorah
Gilad Michael Ben Batgalim and
Eyal Ben Iris Tshura, come home.... but can our prayers really make a difference?? Of course we have been taught to pray in situations of struggle and challenge and its not really a real question... of course prayer helps, but looking in this weeks Torah reading we see an amazing thing.

After Korach and company are destroyed for rebelling against Moshe and Aharon, the entire community of Israel (the survivors ) is outraged by their punishment and come to accuse Moshe and Aharon for causing the death of Hashem's people...this rebellion causes Hashem further anger and He declares that "He will wipe them all out in an instant" and indeed a plague is launched that has deadly effect..... it is at this point that Moshe instructs Aharon to take a fire pan with incense on it  and go and make an atonement for the people...

We read how with his burning fire pan, Aharon makes atonement for the people, 'he stood (literally) between the dead and the living and the epidemic was halted .(17:13)
In the Rashi we read that "Aharon seized the angel of death himself and stopped him, despite himself...".. this is amazing...Rashi continues to explain how they argue, the Angel of death  claiming to be carrying out Hashem's instructions,  which should trump the intensions of Aharon who is acting on behalf of Moshe... but when they return together to confront Moshe who is at the entrance to the Ohel Moed, (the special place where Hashem and Moshe would engage) we see that Aharon and Moshe are indeed victorious in convincing the angel of death, because the plague does in fact get stopped!!
Proof indeed of the efficacy of  human initiative, or prayer!!

Its an amazing story....
Thanks to Rabbi David Fohrman, you can watch his video explanation of this on his website:www.alphabeta.org or go direct to the link for this weeks parsha 
http://www.alephbeta.org/course/lecture/korach-can-we-influence-god





Friday, June 13, 2014

a great quote from Carolyn Myss..

Thanks to my dear friend Janet!
“We are living through a cosmic transformation that is directing us to realize that power originates in our thoughts and energy.  While that has always been the truth, becoming conscious of that truth is equal to becoming partners in the dynamics of creation. We now know that our thoughts are active creative agents. Realizing that one truth will redirect the future of humanity.
And one of the laboratories in which this cosmic drama is being played out is our physical body, our mind, our emotions and our soul.  We are each a cosmic laboratory unto ourselves.  That one truth should make you want to know everything you can about yourself - and certainly everything about the nature of your own consciousness. You now have choice about how to handle illnesses because you know how powerful your choices and attitudes are. 
How can I not teach this message?  Whether I present through health or mysticism or archetypes or history - at the end of the day, I am teaching you about the emerging consciousness in human nature.  How can you not want to learn this message?” Carolyn Myss

My feelings and thoughts exactly!


Moving Forward: The power of Positive Imagination

I came across an amazing distinction between  hopefulness and hopelessness in preparing for my parsha class this week. The source was a video on Shlach by Rabbi David Fohrman, which basically suggests that when we use our  creative imagination to create wonderful and exciting scenarios  about our future, we generate hopefulness, but when we use our power of imagination to look backwards, we will probably land up in a state of hopelessness.

The source for this idea concerns the manner in which the Jewish people responded to being told by the majority of the spies who had gone ahead of the community to scout out the land of Israel, that they felt the whole idea of entering the land of Israel  and dealing with the communities already there was a terrible  idea. In fact they even say, "in our eyes we seemed like grasshoppers, and so we were in their eyes"(13:33), referring to the "giants" that inhabited the land . Their self perception was so negative they even projected it upon how they were seen by others. How did they know how they were seen?  Two righteous spies vehemently disagreed with them, but could not persuade the people that trusting in G-d and moving forward was a valid option. Rabbi Fohrman draws our attention to how backward thinking intensified when the Jews thought  about the challenges that awaited  them in the future.The verses illustrate this in three steps.....1) if only we had died in Egypt, 2) Is it not better for us to return to Egypt? 3) Let us appoint a leader and return to Egypt! (14:1-4)

Didn't  the Jewish people remember all the suffering they endured back in Egypt? Even if these complaints and suggestions  were spurred on by the "Erav Rav"(the mixed multitude who joined the Jewish people on their  exit) surely they too were aware the Egypt experience was not a bed of roses for the Jewish people? How could they suggest going back?? What faculty of being could get a people who had suffered for over 400 years in a certain situation to possibly think that  returning to the source of their suffering would be a preferable situation than trying out their luck and moving forward? Backward facing imagination!

Rabbi Fohrman suggests this is the epitome of hopelessness... engaging our imagination to glorify the past. When we use our imagination to glorify the past, we can edit out the bad parts, we can recreate reality in our minds to make it seem that everything about the path not taken was in fact perfect... we can airbrush what had led us to reject that option and only focus on all the imaginary benefits that path could have offered, and then collapse into negative and hopeless feelings.  The rejected choice is a past that is no longer ours, a choice not made or a path not taken; it could be a house not bought , a shidduch not pursued or a business opportunity overlooked.... when we look back and use our vivid imaginations to extrapolate  all the positives of what might have been, all the wonderful and marvelous realities that could have been ours, we do ourselves a great disservice...We would do better to utilize our creative imagination and power of visualization, which are powerful tools, in forward and thus positive thinking!

To utilize our imagination and capacity for  positive visualization  in forward and thus "hopeful" thinking, we need to ground ourselves  in the new reality of what is now, be focused on the present and the future and then be creative to explore all the possibilities that still exist beckoning ahead, this will lead to hopefulness and not hopelessness! Forward thinking, with positive scenarios imagined and visualized will enable us to feel empowered to take on even the most daunting tasks, making the most of that new job, new home, new shidduch opportunity or even a victory fighting giants!

Shabat Shalom!

Thursday, May 29, 2014

Grounding, the Mountain and getting ready for Shavuot


Ever since we were new in Torah or very young children if we were lucky enough to be born frum, we have learnt that the Torah was given on Har Sinai because the Mountain of Sinai was both a mountain, signifying some stature, but not a very high one, suggesting the middah( quality) of modesty. What else can we learn about the Mountain that could assist us in receiving the Torah on Shavuot?

The final sfirah ( spiritual energy center/ manifestation) that we focus on before we reach our goal of getting to Har Sinai is Malchus/Royalty ( Seven weeks between Pesach and Shavuot = seven different Sfirot) Malchus is hard to define and hard to personalize , how do we refine our aspect of Malchus? One idea to focus in on that offers insight is that Malchus is a reflection of Kesser/the Crown , the highest energy and light that precedes all of Creation. Kesser represents Hashem's vision of what He wants us to be, and Malchus is the reality of who we have become. This idea is connected to the idea of the end being rooted in the beginning, and the beginning being rooted in the end, with Kesser being the beginning or intension and Malchus being the realization of the idea or the end. Kesser is a manifestation  from Hashem, but what  Malchus looks like is up to us.

How does this idea relate to a Mountain?

Each of the sfirot connect to different parts of the body, the sfirah of Malchus is related to our feet, our sacrum, and interestingly, the mouth. Malchus corresponds to the "Root" center , how we stand upon the earth, who we are,  and how we reflect our essence into the world, just like  the way the moon reflects the light of the sun.  Malchus doesn't really have a distinctiveness of its own, it reflects the truth and reality of all that preceded it. The greatness of Malchus is its ability to receive and to just be. 

When we stand upon the earth like a mountain,  feeling our feet connecting to the earth, we can  "ground" our energy . If we take the time to quieten our minds while we do this, perhaps by closing our eyes and becoming conscious of our breathing, we can actually facilitate a lightening and an opening up of our higher selves...just by being still, conscious  and grounded.

When we imagine ourselves as a mountain, grounded and still and ready to receive that which is above  getting ready to be gifted to us, we are in the best position to receive Torah...

So it is really instructive, that the Torah was given on a mountain...those cheder kids knew it all along! 

Thursday, May 15, 2014

Surrendering to Blessing.


This week we read Parshas  Bechokotei, which enumerates some wonderful blessings from above and some pretty scary curses and we also continue to count the Omer, focusing on the Sfirah of Hod.
The word sfirah refers to different G-dly energies existent in the world and existent within us. There are 10 sfirot, and during the  7 weeks between Pesach and Shavuot we focus on the seven sfirot connected to our  7 main emotions. *

So how exactly would we translate "Hod"? Hod is related to the hebrew word "Hodaya" which means to acknowledge, the root of the sfirah is connected to acknowledging the greatness of G-d and His Splendor. Hod is usually translated as "Splendor" but it has a lot to do with  "Acknowledgement"  and it is also connected to the capacity to surrender, to acknowledge the opinion or point of view of the other... and then (possibly)... to surrender to it. Hod stands opposite the Sfirah of Netzach, which is often translated as "Victory", but suggests the qualities of persistence, determination and commitment.

Drawing from an explanation of this weeks parsha from Rabbi David Fohrman, ( alphabeta.org), I would like to suggest that the idea of being able to acknowledge Hashem's rule over the physical world is the key to all the blessings mentioned in this week's parsha, while refusing to surrender,  refusing to engage our "Hod" capacity,  or acknowledge the rule of G-d is what leads to all the curses.

Rabbi Fohrman puts forward the idea that just as eating from the tree of knowledge sent Adam and Chava out of the garden of Eden and away from  all the blessings over there, so too, not listening to Hashem, specifically in relation to the Sabbatical (Shmitah)  year is what sends the Jews out of Israel, and into exile and is what underlines all of the curses in this week's  parsha. Rabbi Fohrman illustrates  that all the blessings at the beginning of the parsha mirror, (but in reverse order) the blessings and descriptions of  Gan Eden. At  the end of the portion of all of the curses, the pasukim read..."then the land will appease(G-d's anger on account of ) its sabbatical years.......then the land will lie fallow and bring appeasement (to the Eternal King)  for its (unobserved) sabattical years. (26:34).

It seems that just as at the time of  Pesach we draw attention to the negative  aspects of the ego, eating the flat matzah that indicates humility, and identifying the anti hero, Pharoah,  as  a personification of ego and arrogance, so here too... the Torah is pointing out to us that the path towards blessing is a path of acknowledging G-d rule over us and  submitting to his dominion. The Ishbitz teaches in parshas Behar, that the laws of Shmittah, (the Sabattical year), Ribbis (not taking interest).. and Yovel (The  Jubilee year) are related to the realms of Place, Time and Person,....  and in all realms we should be enabled to understand that we cannot have total dominion or  total ownership .... only Hashem can really claim ownership in those domains in an ultimate sense. So with this understanding, all three of those mitzvoth just mentioned are training us in our capacity to experience Hod and our  capacity to "let go and let G-d" so to speak.

In closing, just a word about punishments and rewards,.... it makes it so much easier to relate to if we think of blessings as consequences of operating with G-dly principles and that the curses, rather than punishments, are the unfortunate consequences of working against or outside of  the G-dly vision...G-d is not a punishing G-d, here He seems to spell out the consequences and effects.. of going with the divine Flow or not. In submitting to His plan, we allow our capacity to surrender come to the fore, in go ing with His flow... we become  splenderous as we  reflect  G-d's own light allowing it to shine within us too!!

Have a splenderous shabbos!

* The Seven Emotions: (Loose translations from the Hebrew) Kindness, Strength, Harmony(balance), Determination,Surrender, Capacity to connect, Mastery.



Thursday, May 8, 2014

Finding Balance


This is an amazing time between Pesach and Shavuot...the sages tell us that on the night of the Sedar we have a vision of what our own liberation and redemption looks like, and then we have the seven weeks of counting the "Omer" , counting the days till Shavuot,  so that we can work to make that  vision into a reality. During this time of counting, we are also working on our  7 emotional attributes, each one corresponding to one of the weeks in the countdown... so that by the time we reach Shavuot, we  have refined our emotional faculties and are fitting vessels to receive the light of the Torah and that we may resemble that version of ourselves we were able to visualize Sedar night.

If we look at this beautiful graphic above we see that  the ten faculties of the soul, or the 10 "Sfirot" are divided into three vertical groups, those on the left, those on the right and those in the center. Inspired flashes of insight, kindness and persistence are on the right side of the graphic and are thought of as the masculine attributes; the capacity to integrate our understanding, have  internal strength and focus, and the willingness to surrender are on the left side, the side of the feminine. Going through the middle of the graphic are the qualities representing integration of the parallel attributes on either side...Connection to the world above (Keter), integrated knowledge, balance, or the capacity to create harmony, a capacity to connect and bond  (Yesod) and being able to put all of the above together in a masterful manner (Malchut) are all  the qualities of integration and resolution.

Although all the qualities have intrinsic worth... the greatest blessings come from the points of integration, the resolution of opposites. We are told that when Hashem wants to bless the Jewish people, the best vessel for his blessing is Peace. (Rabbi Shimon ben Chalafta taught that peace is the only vessel the Holy One found which could contain Israel's blessing ") Rebbe Nachman asks how we can recognize this peace, and answers that it is the resolution of opposites, the qualities represented by the middle line...

 Heaven, we are told is a combination of fire and water, " Eish" (fire) and "Mayim" (water), thus its name is  "Shamayim" a combination of these two words. Hashem (G-d) is able to hold together two opposite entities and make them one. Heaven or Shamayim is the ultimate unification of opposing entities.

Rebbe Nachman teaches us that Yosef Ha Tzaddik, (Yosef the righteous), was able to bridge opposing ways of being, bringing them into resolution and is  thus identified with absolute peace. We see this, says Rebbe Nachaman from the following; He spoke in a disparaging way about his brothers to his father, which would suggest he was connecting to the side of judgement, yet he sought out their welfare when he went to find them in Shchem ( the side of Chesed-Kindness) .He becomes a ruler over many holding great power, (Gevurah) yet he is nurturing and sustains life ( Chesed). He is appointed as the Viceroy in Egypt,  the word used in hebrew is " Avreich" which combines the aspects of being a father, ( Av)  and with being young (Reich) another resolution of opposites. Of course he is involved with power and politics and the ways of the world, yet he is absolutely righteous and never sins and is called Yosef the Righteous !

Yosef was attractive to both men and women, in fact both genders found him irresistible.  What was so compelling about Yosef?? He was integrated!!

Like his mother Rachael, he was  very beautiful,  but like his mother, his beauty was  both inner and outer. They were harmonious, their inner selves matching their outer selves, and both aspects were in harmony!! Both of their beauty had  the capacity  to connect others to the beauty of  the harmony of Creation and to the Creator Himself.
Yosef is a wonderful symbol for the integration and balance which we all seek. Although its Yaakov who is associated with the Sfirah of Tiferet (Balance/harmony) , and Yosef is identified with Yesod( Connection/foundation) , we know that Yosef and Yaakov were very close. When the Torah refers to Yaakov, and wants to mention his descendants or accomplishments, ( "Aleh toldos Yaakov: Yosef" ) it mentions Yosef first and foremost...In a certain way Yosef is Yaakov and Yakov sees his full expression in Yosef. The Sfirah of Tiferet holds a place in the center line that feeds down into the Sfirah of Yesod... they both are in different ways, accomplishments of integration and are connected with peace and thus are a source of blessing.


I bless everybody with the capacity to find balance and harmony; integration in balancing the different needs in our relationships, in our marriages ( if we are married) and in our parenting( if we are parents...)in our activities and in all aspects of our beings,   so that we can truly live peaceful, harmonious and happily balanced lives!

Shabat Shalom.